Students who wear hoodies in summer or shorts in winter aren’t being defiant. Learn why clothing choices often reflect regulation, identity, and belonging.

Discover why students repeat TikTok dances in the hallways and how synchronized movement reveals deeper needs for belonging, safety, and connection.

Why hallway slang like ‘Skibidi’ might be the most important clue to connection you’ll hear all week.

If you’ve ever walked onto campus feeling like you’re already bracing for battle – ready to defend your role, your time, and your boundaries – you’re not alone. Most school counselors have been there. We’re taught to protect ourselves early in our careers, to guard against being overloaded or overlooked. But here’s the truth most […]

School refusal isn’t about defiance – it’s communication. Learn how school counselors can respond with empathy, connection, and practical strategies that really work.

Feeling like you’re not doing enough?
You’re not alone—and you’re not the problem.

This post dives into:
– Why the school system was never built for counselors
– How we’ve turned the ASCA Model into a measuring stick
– What happens when data becomes self-surveillance
– And why it’s okay to let go of the map and take a detour

If you’re tired of trying to “do it all” and still feeling like you’re falling short… this one’s for you.

Most school counselors are told to advocate for their role. But real influence isn’t earned through advocacy: It’s earned through presence. This post breaks down the five traits that build trust with school leaders and how to lead without waiting for permission.

School counseling isn’t what it used to be.The role is shifting—and in a lot of places, it’s happening fast. Depending on where you work, “school counselor” could mean three very different things right now.And if you’re not paying attention to which one you’re being seen as, you could find yourself squeezed out without even realizing […]

Discover repeatable frameworks to elevate your school counseling practice and feel more confident and capable in your work. Learn practical strategies to reduce overwhelm and better serve your students.

Feeling unprepared can be one of the biggest stressors for school counselors. Whether it’s the global sense of not being ready for the role after grad school or the day-to-day surprises like unexpected crises, not feeling prepared can leave us questioning our decisions and feeling overwhelmed. As we approach the end of December and look […]