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What happens when the reality of school counseling doesn’t match the training? This episode explores burnout, unrealistic expectations, counselor identity, and the need for sanity-based school counseling.

The Kids Just Like You Too Much

Three important decisions school counselors should make before summer break to protect their role, manage professional relationships, and start the next school year with more clarity and less burnout.

3 Decisions You’ll Regret Not Making Before August

End-of-year counseling referrals surge every May. Learn how to triage what actually needs intervention, what’s adult fatigue, and how to respond strategically.

“It’s Been Happening All Year.” So Why Is It a Referral Now?

School counseling positions are being cut, and the real issue isn’t budgets. Learn why visibility, not value, is putting your role at risk and how to protect it.

No One Knows What You Do- And That’s Dangerous

Feeling like you’re the problem in your school counseling role? This post breaks down how systemic gaslighting shows up in schools and how to recognize it so you can reclaim clarity and confidence.

This Isn’t Burnout. It’s Gaslighting.

Saying “yes” too often as a school counselor isn’t a boundaries problem. Learn the real reason it happens and a practical system to respond with clarity and confidence.

A Year Full of “Yeses”… and a Lot of Regret

Restorative justice can work in schools, but most implementations fail. Learn the research-backed conditions school counselors need to understand before using restorative practices.

Restorative Justice Works (Just Not Like That)

Maslow’s hierarchy of needs is widely taught in education, but the research doesn’t support it. Learn what school counselors need to understand about motivation, bias, and evidence-based practice.

Your Campus Runs on a Pyramid of Lies

Tired of being told to “find your why” as a school counselor? Discover research-backed strategies to combat burnout, rebuild your energy, and reclaim your role without relying on motivation alone.

Stop Finding Your Why

Many school counselors did not choose role creep. It happened one “yes” at a time. This post explores how counselors became the behavioral pressure valve in schools and what it takes to reclaim a sustainable, ethical counseling role.

Your School’s Pressure Valve Has a Name. It’s You.