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As anxiety continues to rise in schools, many common accommodations may be making it worse. This post challenges avoidance-based supports and explains how school counselors can build student capacity instead.

School Counselors, Stop Accommodating Anxiety. (Yes, Really.)

As National School Counseling Week approaches, many school counselors are feeling both celebrated and invisible. This post explores the two futures facing the profession and why the choices made right now matter more than ever.

School Counseling Has Two Futures… and We’re Running Out of Time

As National School Counseling Week approaches, many school counselors feel behind instead of celebrated. Learn why school counseling is catalytic work, not a finished product, and why the problem is measurement, not effectiveness.

The Catalyst Problem in School Counseling

Feeling flat, heavy, or emotionally drained even though you still care? Learn what compassion fatigue really is, why it affects strong school counselors, and what actually helps.

The Unspoken Cost of Compassion in School Counseling

Feeling a bone-deep exhaustion that rest never touches? Learn why what school counselors experience often isn’t burnout at all, and what research says is really behind that soul-level tiredness.

Why School Counselors Are SO TIRED (It’s Not Burnout)

The Question School Counselors Rarely Get Asked School counselors are some of the most capable professionals in any building. You manage crises, support students, juggle schedules, respond to emergencies, and hold together systems that were never designed with your role in mind. Still, many counselors walk away at the end of the day feeling like […]

The Question School Counselors NEVER Get Asked

Why students compete over everything: explore the “scoreboard brain,” belonging, behavior, and how school counselors can help kids feel seen without performing.

The Hidden Reason Students Compete Over Everything

That moment when a joke lands wrong and the room shifts? You are not imagining it. Explore burn culture and practical ways school counselors can step in with clarity and confidence.

“Burns” vs. Bullying: What School Counselors Need to Know

Ever wonder why students always wait until the last minute to disclose something heavy? Learn the neurobiology behind those end-of-day confessions and how school counselors can respond with clarity, calm, and confidence.

Why Some Students Only Show Up When School Counselors Are Trying to Leave

Discover how school counselors can protect their well-being, set healthier boundaries, and build a more resilient campus culture during the busiest seasons of the year. This heartfelt guide explores practical ways to shift from “fixer” to empowered facilitator, reduce burnout, and strengthen collaboration with staff and students. Perfect for educators seeking encouragement, clarity, and sustainable strategies for supporting their school communities.

Letting Go of the Fix-It Role: A Holiday Reflection for School Counselors